if your man cheats on you

5 Things You Shouldn't Do If He's Cheats on You (VERY IMPORTANT

                      

The first thing that you want to do when you find out that your man has stepped out on you is kick his ass. It's not an easy thing to control your emotions, but there are three things you want to work on when you are sure (preferably with evidence):



- hold back your power.

- Keep your dignity

- Don't do anything that will land you in the slammer.

Easier said than done, right?

Here's what you need to do to win in this situation.
 Don't say anything until you have evidence. Don't go by what Keneisha said or what you think. You have to have proof... a receipt, a text message, a selfie of him and his side chick. If you don't have proof, he will cover his tracks or worse, go undercover even deeper.

 Never, ever, ever, ever, ever let him make you feel responsible. A cheater is responsible for his own actions. You don't hold a gun to his head or make him do anything. Do not feel you are responsible and do not allow him to make you feel that way either. See, that's where marriage vows come in... this living-together thing ya'll do... there is no stated commitment, but when you actually get married, vows are made.


 Do not give him time to make a decision. He made a commitment to you... he does not deserve options now. You tell him what you want then and there. If you give him time to figure things out,” you are giving him time to figure out how to get away with it with the least amount of effort. Think things through. Be ready

 Don't cry. Of course it will be hard! You cannot be vulnerable at this point. Keep your dignity. This is not a competition. You should be No. 1, and that's all there is to it. No begging. Don't whine and say, Why did you do it?” He did it because he is weak and undeserving of a good woman. Your marriage/relationship is not negotiable.

 Don't beat yourself up trying to figure out why he did it. You are not responsible for his actions. Don't waste your energy on that. Focus on you now. Decide what you want and move forward with that.

It's not going to be easy. You have to decide what the consequences will be when you confront a cheater. It could be the end of a relationship. Are you ready for that?

Church building brought down...

The Ogun State Government has demolished a church building owned by the Redeemed Christian Church of God, RCCG.

The RCCG is one of Nigeria’s largest Pentecostal churches and its head, Enoch Adeboye, is one of the country’s most revered men. Nigeria’s Vice President, Yemi Osinbajo, is also a pastor of the church.

The demolished building is located inside the estate, Obasanjo Hilltop, named after ex-President Olusegun Obasanjo by the state government; and located along the Presidential Boulevard, Abeokuta, the state capital.

The construction of the church, headed by a former lawmaker in Ogun State, Remmy Hazzan, started in 2013, and was being roofed when the government rolled out caterpillars on Friday to pull it down.
PREMIUM TIMES learnt that the church leadership was meant to commence use of the ground floor for church activities on November 8 prior to the building’s completion.

On Friday, as the state government demolished the building, workers at the site and church members burst into tears, with some shouting “Jesus, Jesus, this is your house,” “Lord where is your face.”
It was learnt that the state governor, Ibikunle Amosun, insisted the building be pulled down, arguing that the structure violated the residential master plan of the estate.

When contacted, the Ogun State Commissioner for Special Duties, Leke Adewolu, said he was not aware of the demolition.

However, Governor Amosun’s Special Adviser on Media, Adejuwon Soyinka, said the demolition was carried out because the church building was not approved.

“I am told that the church has no title documents nor approval,” Mr. Soyinka said. “The estate is strictly residential, and the building has defeated the approved design plan. And let me quickly add, nothing is political about the action.”

The Commissioner for Urban and Regional Planning ,Adebola Adeife, did not respond to phone calls or text message sent to him by our correspondent.
Officials of the RCCG also declined public statements although one of the top officials of the church in Ogun said Mr. Adeboye had asked everyone to stay quiet on the issue.

Source: Premium Times

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Graphic photos: Two terrorist killed as Army raids more sect camps in Borno, female member arrested

Press statement from Military

In efforts to continually dominate recovered territories and clear all Nigerian territory of Boko Haram vestiges, the advancing troops of 5 Brigade Task Group have onTuesday cleared 5 more terrorists camps at Hausari and Baranga in Marte Local Government Area of Borno State. The troops during and encounter with Boko Haram terrorists at the camps killed 2 terrorists and recovered 2 Dane guns and a Double Barrel gun, while 12 motorcycles abandoned by some fleeing terrorists were destroyed.

In addition, a suspected female member of the terrorists group was captured and is currently undergoing interrogation. It will be recalled that troops of 5 Brigade had some time last month cleared and destroyed twenty terrorists camps at Kerenowa general area. In a related development, today, troops of 28 Task Force Brigade on patrol between Bitta – Yamteke in Borno State to block Boko Haram terrorists fleeing from Lagaran Fulani to enter sambisa forest, discovered 2 planted Improvised Explosive Devices (IEDs) and successfully detonated them.

We wish to state here that, while striving to stamp out terrorists from Nigerian territory, the troops remain committed to ensuring that they cleared and secure all known Boko Haram terrorists’ camps and enclaves so that no terrorist infiltrates and return to any of the recovered areas. Kindly disseminate this information to the public through your medium. Thank you for your usual and kind cooperation.

Colonel Sani Kukasheka Usman
Acting Director Army Public Relations

Cossy Ojiakor's neww pussy

Actress Cossy Ojiakor shows off her new pussy

 Lots of Kitty-Cat… Hala if u need one… Given out free Kitty-Cat to anyone that really wants it and wishes happy birthday to them. Mrs simeony won’t mind.

Simeony…. Just gave birth to lots of Kitty-Cat cats…. Home celebrating with @hallemordu Nigerians finest music act…. Wait till she explodes… Meanwhile….. Pls wish my Kitty-Cat happy birthday

Condoms or Nah?

Here Is A 5 Ways To Have Safe S ex Without A C ondom!!!

Like me, I’m sure some of you guys are asking “what the f uck is a c ondom?”

 

I’ve done some research (mainly through Google so it may not be entirely accurate) and I’ve found out that “c ondoms” are something you put on your dick when you want to have s ex because it’s safer.

Well, how about that? You learn something new every day.

All jokes aside, I like to have s ex without c ondoms. The past 12 girls I’ve had s ex with have all been without a c ondom, and I’m STD and baby-free. Someone I know has never used a condom and has had s ex with over 50 girls. He’s also STD and baby-free. (stay safe having s ex and get the same feeling with these Ultra Slim condoms)

 

The media likes to scare people about the issue of having “safer s ex”, and girls tend to get more scared about these sorts of things. Well, I say “scared”, but once they’re in the right mood then their defenses and cares dissipate pretty quickly.

I’ve picked up girls in bars and gone home straight after to have s ex with them without the use of a condom. I’ve met girls online and had s ex with them without a condom, and I’ve had some “flings” with girls all without using a condom. One thing I’ve noticed is that they’ll all mention using one at first, but it’s pretty easy to get them to agree to not using one.

 

I have problems with condoms. I struggle getting them on and require a special size (extra small, of course) to get them to fit otherwise they’re too tight and don’t roll down. This kills the mood, kills my boner, and has resulted in me not having s ex because I wasn’t confident enough to push the idea of not using one.

Simply don’t have a condom

That’s right, just don’t buy any. Don’t have any reserves and don’t have a special one tucked away somewhere “just in case”.

Sometimes you can be in bed with a girl and you’ll try to have s ex without one, but she knows you have a stash. She’ll want to use one because her “anti slut defense” and “hamster” will kick in so as not to appear as that kind of girl.

When things get heated and she asks if you have any condoms, say “no”. Frustrate her enough from then on by getting her to crave your d ick so much so that she doesn’t care about using one in the end. This is my favorite and most trusted technique. Job done.

 

Convince her to get the morning after pill

I don’t want to have a baby, but I want to have lots of s ex without worrying about condoms. Despite contrary stories on the internet, I haven’t actually come across any girls that are looking to trap me (yet), but my concerns are strong and I’m very careful not to risk anything.

When a girl gets s exually frustrated and really wants you to f uck her, all you have to do is provide her with an excuse to do it. Living down the road from a pharmacy has helped me massively, because I could convince the girl to get the morning after pill “to be sure” the next day.

Convincing her is easy, especially if she knows you don’t have any condoms. If you’ve had s ex with her a couple of times in the night with a condom however, and want to switch to not using one, the “we can get the morning after pill tomorrow to be sure” line works a treat.

The next day, march her down to the pharmacy yourself or demand you get a picture of the pill off of her.

Note: For extra effectiveness, add “I’ll help pay towards it” too, even if you won’t.

Amancio Ortega briefly passes Bill Gates to become the World's richest man

Amancio Ortega Briefly Passes Bill Gates To Become World's Richest Man

Bill gates briefly relinquished his title as the world’s richest man to Spanish retail giant Amanico ortega Friday morning. Ortega’s net worth hit $80 billion as stock in his holding company Industria de Diseño Textil reached an all-time high of 33.99 Euros per share. Gates quickly reclaimed the top ranking after Ortega’s shares slipped slightly to 33.80 Euros as of 10:52 a.m. Eastern Standard Time. The two billionaires will likely swap the title of world’s richest man in the coming days, as shares of Inditex,Microsoft and their other holdings continue to bounce up and down.
Industria de Diseño Textil, or Inditex, is the parent company to brands Zara , Pull&Bear and Massimo Dutti. The $20 billion (sales) enterprise is the envy of the retail world, with its fast-fashion model that can design, make, ship and sell a piece of clothing in days. That allows Inditex to react quickly to changing customer demands and keep its stores stocked with the latest trends.
Inditex shares are up more than 50% in the last year. Ortega’s gains in the billionaire ranks are even more impressive since Forbes measures fortunes in dollars, and the value of the Euro has fallen from $1.27 a year ago to $1.10 today.
The son of a railway worker, Ortega cofounded Zara with his wife Rosalia Mera in 1975, selling bathrobes and lingerie. He still owns 59% of the company today. The couple divorced years ago, and daughter Sandra Ortega Mera inherited Rosalia’s stake when her mother died suddenly of a brain hemorrhage in August 2013. Sandra is now the second-richest person in Spain, with a fortune of $7.3 billion.

AFRIFF 2015

Save The Date: AFRIFF 2015 Opening Night Holds On Sunday

Nov 4, 2015 – Save The Date: AFRIFF 2015 Opening Night Holds On Sunday November 8, 2015

Event Style: Party/Jazznite
Date: November 8, 2015
Venue: Maison Fahrenheit. 80 Adetokunbo Ademola Street, Victoria Island, Lagos

On Royalty

Emir Of Kano’s Daughter Writes Linda Ikeji

Beautiful daughter of Emir of Kano, Yusra Khadija Muhammadu Sunusi II has written a letter to popular blogger Linda Ikeji.
Khadija wrote this letter after Linda shared a picture of her on the blog which sparked up controversial comments from the readers.
Read what she wrote;
“Hi Linda, I hope you’re well. I saw your blog post about my picture and although I am flattered that you think I’m stunning, I find the comments rather offensive. The comments could be classified under two categories: either made by perverts or made by people who used the opportunity to disregard my father’s marital affairs. I am aware that you cannot control your viewer’s opinions, but you violated My right of privacy by putting up pictures of me on your blog, when you don’t even know me personally.

There is more to a person than meets the eye. By putting up my pictures and describing me as “pretty” and “stunning”, you are judging me based on my physical appearances. Truth is, this is exactly what is wrong with the world. We reduce people and describe them using shallow and physical adjectives. For the commenter who insisted that I was only pretty with make up on, we live in a world full of Nigerians who spend hundreds, and even thousands on Brazilian and Indian wigs, bleaching creams and fake nails. And you are looking down on me because I am wearing make up?
And, in case you do speak to your commenters, please tell them that  I am not married for “royal ties”. And yes, I am older than my father’s last wife, but why should that be anybod ‘s business? To the ignorant commenter who shamed my father for marrying a young wife: My father is a Muslim and his marriage is legal before Islamic Law (look up Prophet Muhammad S.A.W‘s marriage to Nana Aisha). If The Almighty God permits his marriage, who are you to condemn it? Why should he please you, the creation, when he can please The Creator?
Going forward, I will appreciate it if you would be as kind as to remove my pictures from your blog so as to stop similarly insulting comments.
But do feel free to post this email on your blog because a lot of ignorant people that read your blog need an educated response. “For every action, there is an equal and opposite reaction”.

On Wizkid

Wednesday, 4 November 2015

“I’m not happy with Wizkid….I don’t like him as a person” – Samklef

Sometimes i question why Samklef – Wizkid’s “Superstar” album producer ins’t under StayBoy umbrella since in my opinion gave Wiz his best beats a while back. Looks like the friendship/relationship is not there anymore, Samklef had few words for Wizkid with his interview with LindaIkeji..

“I’m not happy with Wizkid. I like his music, but I don’t like him as a person anymore. The reason I don’t like him anymore is, why do you go about spoiling other people’s business? I never spoiled your business, never came out to say anything bad about you for four years. So why would you go to an OAP and tell the OAP that the reason why you no longer work with me is because my beat is amateur. What does that mean? Those amateur beats was what brought you to limelight, was what made you meet the same Akon who first dropped ‘Don’t Dull’ on your voice.” Samklef said.

I never downgraded him. I showed him love. I used to go to his house…but he never came to mine. He doesn’t know my house. He hasn’t even seen my son before. It means he doesn’t regard me as a friend. I wanted to feature him in one of my songs but this guy kept posting me for years. That’s not even why I am angry. I am angry because he’s going about disrespecting my talent. Saying these things in public. It is annoying.
“I’m doing fine without Wizkid. I don’t want to say I regret working with him but I’m thanking God that we are all alive. But ask him, the people you are going to feature in America, if they were like you, would you meet them?

“I wish him luck. I don’t regret working with his talent, I only regret working with his person. His fame took him away. He forgot where he was coming from. His person is very disgusting. There’s something we call the grace of God. Before Wizkid got to where he is today, somebody gave him a front line, somebody introduced him. He didn’t just come from anywhere. Making music is not just about one person. Banky was there to give him the front line and others came to help out. I’m not the only one complaining, other producers are complaining. I don’t want to call names but nobody is saying anything good about Wizkid and you call yourself a superstar when you keep matching other people down. What is the star about you? Is it because you are featuring other foreign artists? You are not the first to do that, others have done that before so why are you carried away?
“I don’t want to do anything with Wizkid anymore. Keep it to yourself, keep your name. I have new friends and new family. But he can continue talking. We are listening. I don’t wish him bad. He says my beat is amateur but watch out for Samklef.” He said